Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Reminder of the Basics of Stewardship

I can't believe I am doing this again but this week I am copying my friend Scott Hibben's article.  He lifts up basic reminders for all of us concerning stewardship and giving.  Scott Hibben is on staff with the Iowa Annual Conference and an ordained United Methodist Elder.


Stirrings - September 28, 2011 - Scott Hibben - scott.hibben@iaumc.org  •  www.iaumc.org
This past April we offered a series of “Tippers to Tithers” workshops across the Conference,
with Paul Nickerson. The purpose of these workshops was to assist congregations in identifying
and implementing some of the most recent best practices in financial stewardship and giving. If
your congregation was part of this workshop, hopefully you are well on the way to already
doing this, but since we are now coming upon that time of year when again every church thinks
twice about its budget and its people’s giving, I thought it might be helpful to highlight some of
our learnings.

• People’s giving is not about “duty, obligation, and expectations of church membership,”
but actually from what inspires them
     o Make it personal—tell the story of the difference their giving is making in the
lives of individuals
     o Make it about something bigger than themselves—something eternal, of God,
because it REALLY is!
• For these reasons, people don’t give to a budget, but to people and purpose
     o Therefore, don’t put a financial budget in people’s hands, with all the financial
figures, but a ministry budget, that puts the focus on people and ministry
• Especially in these economic turbulent times, one of the best gifts a church can give its
people is teaching them healthy stewardship practices
     o Such as through Financial Peace University, Good Sense, etc.
     o So definitely have a campaign—which helps people learn how to budget and
plan their giving to the ministry of their church
• Definitely have different letters for different levels of givers
     o People give at different levels for different reasons, so the same message
doesn’t resonate with everyone. Customize your letters to 1) the “top 20%”
givers, 2) the middle 80%, and 3) the 20% who are “low/no” givers
• Stewardship development is not just a October/November issue
     o Preach it, teach it, celebrate it, live it out twelve months a year
     o Emphasize planned giving—what people can keep doing after they are gone
• Say, “Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!”
     o People give to that from which they receive some affirmation
     o Weekly write notes, thanking people for ALL their support of their church’s
ministry, sharing the difference their giving is making in individuals’ lives
• Be transparent and accessible, mailing out monthly statements
• Electronic fund transfers (EFTs) are a good thing
     o For young adults, who have no/carry no checkbooks
     o For people who miss church but through EFTs still support their church’s ministry
• The pastor needs to know/be able to know what every person is giving
     o Because people’s giving are spiritual, leadership, and pastoral care issues—and
that is the responsibility and daily work of a pastor
• Avoid statistics in the bulletin or newsletter that are self-defeating or don’t tell the truth
     o Don’t beat people up, shame them into giving, or be Chicken Little calling out
“crisis”—because over the long run, that does not motivate giving, but defeats it
     o Church giving doesn’t come in evenly over twelve months—so your reporting
needs to reflect that
• Have some fun already!
     o God loves a hilarious/cheerful giver, II Corinthians 9:7, so reflect that in the
offerings, campaign, how you thank people and celebrate their giving…
To learn more about all of this, Clif Christopher’s book, “Not Your Parents’ Offering Plate,” is a
great resource, along with your district Stewardship Team. Churches that implement these best
practices notice on average a 20% increase in giving, but even more importantly, a deeper
renewal of spirit about what faith and the practice of our faith is all about—for the cause of
Christ. May you discover that, too.
In Christ, together,
Scott

Monday, September 19, 2011

Don Nations - DNA Coaching

Here is an excerpt from Don Nations latest newsletter.  If you want to subscibe it is free.  Google Don Nations, DNA Coaching:  http://dnacoaching.com.  I always enjoy their e-newsletter.


The Heart of Hospitality

As you likely know by now, I am a firm believer in the science of hospitality – greeters in the parking lot, greeters at the door, great refreshments before and after the service, awesome signage, wonderful printed material, etc. along with an inspiring worship service in a well-cared for facility. All of this is important and needs to be addressed.
I am also, however, a firm believer in the heart and art of hospitality. A warm person with an open heart can be just as impressive as a large lobby with great décor. A person who gets to know the names of first time guests can be better than gourmet coffee. Treating guests like you are expecting them and are truly glad they came can make a bigger impact than a smiling face in the parking lot.
Every church can do something to strengthen its hospitality system. The goal is not to be a clone of another church but, instead, to offer the best hospitality you can in your setting. What will you do this Sunday to make guests feel even more welcome?

Why Do You Want Transformation?

What is your motivation for wanting transformation? I have heard church people say things like “we need new people to help pay the bills”, “we want children in worship because it makes us not feel so old” and “it would be great to have more people because I hate seeing this building so empty”. While these things may be true, are they really the heart of transformation?
At its core, transformation is important because:
• God desires to be in relationship with all people through Jesus
• Jesus lived, died and was raised so that all could experience eternal life, both in this life and in the life to come
• The Christian life was designed to be lived in community and the local church is the vehicle through which this is to happen (in spite of it being imperfect)
• The message of Jesus is life-changing and is meant for everyone
A church can take a lot of actions to move towards transformation. These acts are given life and power, however, by a heart that longs to see more people experience the grace, love and power of Jesus.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Truth versus Facts

Today my husband wrote his blog that can be found at:  www.jondisburg.com.  He wrote about the various versions of history.  That reminded me of a great lesson I have learned in my work on a Doctor Of Ministry through Drew.  Carl Savage has written a book called Narrative Research in Ministry that guides our work.

At the heart of my research project will be hearing stories.  Asking evocative questions and remaining totally neutral to allow the individuals being interviewed to tell their stories.  In listening to their stories one important thing I will need to remember is that each persons story is the truth.  Their story may not be factual but it is their truth.  Do you hear the difference?

I wonder if many of the conflicts in our world wouldn't be solved if everyone realized that each of us has our own truth which may not be the facts.  Each person's story is valid and valuable.  In the courtroom where responsibility for a crime is being determined - facts are important.  The courtroom would not be an appropriate place to share my story about what happened.  I would be asked to share the facts of what I know.

Think about people you have had conflicts with in the past.  If each of you had stopped to acknowledge the validity of each others stories (versions of the truth) perhaps there would not have been a conflict or you might have been able to resolve your conflict quicker.

My story can be influenced by my past or family situation or any number of factors.  As a child I may have been cheated in a way that had a lasting impact on my life.  Therefore as an adult when I relay stories of being cheated, I may have stronger feelings about what happened and even exaggerate what I see as the truth.

Often there are conflicts in the church that could be easily resolved if we were to listen deeply to the narrative (story) each of us has to tell.  Deep listening involves hearing behind the words, wondering what has happened in another person's life that causes them to see things the way they do, or even listening to what they are not sharing.

None of us are trained therapists but we can become better Christians by acknowledging the validity and value of the truth we each share.  As we value the other person's experience as their truth we become less judgemental and realize there is not one version of the truth.  Yes there is one set of facts but often we aren't dealing with facts.

Listen deeply.  Look beyond the surface.  Love beyond measure.

Friday, September 2, 2011

Glimpses of God's Preferred Future for the Church

Recently I have heard a number of new ministries happening that felt to me to be what God would prefer for the future of God's church.  Most of them were getting the church to move out in to the community.  Here are some things I have heard:
 
Bible study in a coffee shop, bar, home, book store...
Worship outdoors for the homeless,
Fasting from using the church building,
A church offering it's resources to a segment of the population and working around their schedule not the  
          church's schedule,
New churches that begin as small groups in homes and never plan to build a building,
Churches that partner with community services,
Church is a Verb Sunday where one church offered to clean toilets in businesses around town,
Rummage sale where everything is free unless you want to make a donation,

I am sure there is a very long list out there.  These things give me hope for the future.  Hope that Christians may be thinking of others and how to reach them.  Do you know of any ministries that belong on this list?

Leila   Check out this website:  http://www.umvitalcongregations.org/